Friday 03rd September, 2010 
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Home Education

This month KT members Gerry and Joanna O'Connell share their experiences of home education

What is Home Education?

Often when people meet us they comment favourably on our children and ask which school they attend.When we reply that our kids are home educated, most people are surprised, but may not be too clear as to what we mean by home education.

In recent years a growing number of parents in Britain have opted to educate their children at home. Many who have taken this decision are Christians. It is impossible to determine how many parents are educating their children at home, since no central records are kept by the Department for Education. However, a recent report into home education stated that over 50,000 children are now being taught in this way.

Biblical arguments

God has given to parents the responsibility for the education of their children. Deuteronomy 4:9-14 and 6:6-9 state that parents, and particularly fathers, are to teach their children a biblical perspective on life and to love the Lord. Other passages in Deuteronomy speak in a similar fashion, such as 6:20-25: 11:19 and 32:46.These parental responsibilities also undergird the whole book of Proverbs, where the writer frequently urges the reader to 'learn what I teach you my son...' (Proverbs 2:1; 3:1; 4:1; 5:1,7; 6:1 etc.). "Hear, my son, your father's instruction, and do not forsake your mother's teaching." (Proverbs 1:8)

Of course, this does not mean that parents cannot share this responsibility with others. However, all parents should be involved in and support their children's education, whether that is in a school or at home.

Your legal rights

Parents are allowed to educate their children at home instead of school if they choose to do so. Under English law, it is education that is compulsory, not schooling.

Benefits and blessings of Home Education - one family's experience We have four children. The oldest is now ten, the youngest two. As parents our aim is to help each child reach his/her full potential in every way, spiritually and academically. So why have we taken the decision to educate our children at home?

Joanna says, "The Lord led us to educate at home through hearing the experience of some of our Christian friends who were involved in home education. In my experience of God's leading in my life I see His wisdom best after I have obeyed. This has been true with the decision to teach our children at home. Here are just a few of the blessings".

  1. Closer family relationships
  2. Together, the children and I are memorising Scripture verses and applying them to develop godly character. Our 2 year old can quote 4 or 5 verses already.
  3. Leaders in the making. Secure children who know who they are, what they believe and who are not as influenced by peer pressure as many school children may be.
  4. Freedom to choose:
    • What the child learns - many curricula are available, including Christian ones
    • When the child learns - when the child is ready, not just the teacher
    • Where the child learns - e.g. real life situations, shops, countryside, field trips, museums Freedom for parents to choose:Where they work e.g. abroad etc., and when to go on holiday.
  5. Research in the USA shows:
    • Better academic results on average than their peers.
    • Excellent teacher-student ratio.
    • Children who still love to learn.
    • Socialisation. Many home taught pupils become skilled at relating to all age ranges including adults. In our area there are over 100 children from Christian homes with whom we socialise. Parents arrange swimming, tennis, football, athletics lessons and sports days as well as meeting up as families in homes and for nature walks or field trips. Also parents meet to encourage each other and to pray about share resources and expertise.

What do you do?

Every household differs. In our family we spend time reading the Bible and praying at breakfast, then we learn a scripture and practise the times tables. We usually work around the dining room table and read aloud in the lounge. In a typical day, the children help with easy household jobs such as clearing the table, hanging up their laundry to dry and putting it away. This teaches them faithfulness and service to others which will be helpful in their adult lives and work. After that we teach other subjects e.g. Maths, English, Handwriting, Reading, History, French, Geography, Science, Music, Physical Education, Character, Logic, Latin. When children are young, many families do academic work in the mornings only.

God has blessed our family greatly by leading us into home education. It is a serious commitment and not the easy option, but we are called to make disciples of all nations, not least our own children.

Does it work?

For many parents the desire for academic success is not of primary importance. When asked "Does it work?" they will refer to the joys of being closely involved in the development of their children, of being knit together as a family, of the absence of any generational animosity within the family, and the joy of watching as their children commit themselves to the Lord and grow into young people who are able to stand among their peers and be different. Many have successfully prepared children for GCEs and GCSEs, seeing them progress to university.

How to begin

  1. Pray, as a family, about the decisions you will need to make, and spend time looking at what the Bible says about family life.
  2. Try to obtain some books on home education, and after reading them, decide what positive reasons you have for wishing to teach your children at home.
  3. Try to speak with other families who are already home educating. If you don't know of any, contact a group like Home Service who can help. (Tel: 0161 432 3782 www.alphainfo.co.uk/homeservice/)
  4. Consider the long-term effects on your family - what changes will it make to your lifestyle?
  5. Ensure, as far as possible, that each member of the family is happy with the decision.
  6. If your children are already at school, make an appointment to see the head teacher to inform him/her of your decision. If your child is not yet at school you are not obliged to write to the LEA.
  7. Spend time deciding your family's approach to education - formal or informal. You do not need a desk!
  8. Obtain catalogues from educational book suppliers and spend time deciding the extent to which you wish to use books, especially workbooks. Don't feel compelled to buy a large number of books.
  9. Be realistic about your own capabilities as a teacher. Decide whether you need to involve any specialist teachers in your child's learning i.e. music teachers, gymnastic classes, etc. Don't fall into the trap of comparing yourself with other parents; all home educators have difficult days from time to time. Enjoy being together - this is far more important than trying to achieve unrealistic goals.
  10. Finally, remember that you should not try to make your home into a school.Your home and family are the best learning resources for your child.

Home schooling is not for everyone

Home schooling is a serious commitment that requires much thought and should not be entered into lightly. Here are some of the things that you should consider:

  1. It requires significant time commitment and research by parents.
  2. The ability to teach is not something that some parents can or even want to do across a wide range of subjects.
  3. Children need to socialise, and this means finding the right people with whom to link.
  4. Home schooling incurs its own costs for books, materials and outings.